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Originally Posted by ScrewedUpMe
Sorry Hankster I don't really understand this...? But yes, to answer your question my parents were very much do as I say, not as I do and were violent and aggressive. Unfortunately that's what I seemed to be imitating and I hate it  |
Your parents gave you mixed messages (as did mine) so when somebody says something direct, as your t did, we wonder what the hidden message really is. So maybe thats why you were so insulted - we KNOW what they REALLY meant! -- that sounds like my mothers favorite expression! Of course we imitate it - thats all we knew growing up. Its become a part of our brains. Its called the evil introject - the mothers voice in our head. The sensible conversation with our ts eventually replaces that voice.