- Mother: dismissive, not surprising since she was emotionally neglectful and very misattuned to my needs
- Father: fearful, also not surprising because he was physically and emotionally abusive, as well as neglectful
- Both best friend and romantic relationship: preoccupied, not surprising because I am often afraid I will be abandoned or harmed by them

Basically, I can form every type of attachment other than secure. No wonder I am miserable.