Thanks again everyone for your responses and thanks Hankster for clarifying, that makes sense.

T replied to my email...she said, 'I can see how you would read it like that, but in my head as I wrote it I was trying to say that therapy can be about expression of whatever is going on for the "client"( so my narrative had moved into a general explanatory concept) and I as I wrote it I moved into a non personal to you statement i.e. one wouldn't expect violence as a mode of expression'. So I guess you lot were spot on. She said it helps her to understand how I interpret things literally and personally. She also said 'Trust me I like you so very much and sincerely do not think you would be violent towards me.'

So that's that cleared up Silly me...again. Thanks for your support everyone.