I agree he should not have shared in mixed company. There are men's meetings for that. I feel meetings should be pretty open to talk about a wide range of topics that have to do with our mental health and addictions. Not just pure alcohol and the steps and so on. It should not be a dumping ground either. Obviously there is a time and a place. He needs to go to a men's only meeting.
I am sorry it took away from your 30 day chip. Triggers and learning to deal with them are a part of recovery. Our obsession to use can be triggered by peoples stories as well.
Great job on getting your 30 day chip. That is huge!!!
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The "paradox" is only a conflict between reality and your feeling of what reality "ought to be." -- Richard Feynman
Major Depressive Disorder
Anxiety Disorder with some paranoid delusions thrown in for fun.
Recovering Alcoholic and Addict
Possibly on low end of bi polar spectrum...trying to decide.
Male, 50
Fetzima 80mg
Lamictal 100mg
Remeron 30mg for sleep
Klonopin .5mg twice a day, cutting this back
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