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Originally Posted by seekersinking
I think I also do it for comfort and connection. I have seen on PC a few times where a T has terminated a client for this. It bothers me that I have done this, yet I do not know why.
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I would think it would bother you because you feel like a peeping Tom, you know something about her that she does not know that you know, so it's about having a secret, and about the shame of wanting more of her than she gave you herself I would imagine.
What do you think?
P.S. I have not personally seen a thread where a client was ever terminated just for searching for their therapist's name online: rather, there were many extenuating circumstances. I may have missed such a thread, but I wouldn't have much faith in the qualifications of a therapist to do the intimate work of therapy if they couldn't handle knowing that someone googled them.