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Old Apr 28, 2014, 10:27 AM
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Thanks for the response. I agree that AA meetings should be open to other topics but this guy didn't bring his sex story back to alcohol in any way. I'm trying to look at this as an opportunity to accept the things I cannot change (his share) and change the things I can (my response). Instead of feeling victimized, I can say "he is an a hole" or "I feel his share was inappropriate for the situation" or "I am uncomfortable with what he shared" and let it go. Even posting on here about it is a positive change for me because I am reaching out and asking for perspective outside myself instead of internalizing and letting it fester. Thanks for listening.
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