collegefriend

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Things you already know... but may need to hear them again.

You are a wonderful friend. There is no way you could be a better friend. What he did was his action and nothing you did "better" would have stopped that. The guilt and the "second guessing" is normal but don't let it eat you up. There is nothing to be gulty for, this was his decision not yours. Things you might have done differently might have changed the situation but not stopped it. Maybe postponed it, maybe would have made it worse instead of better... you can't predict backwards in time.

Stay in contact with your friends and together you can help each other get through this. Keep posting here because we are your friends too and will help however we can.

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