Perhaps your wife would disagree with you about that (although if the reason you don't is because she requested you to not, because of mess, that explains it) and maybe I sound weird to you, but even tho I am well past my baby making days, I still love it when a man ejaculates in me. With my ex, he could only do so ocassionally, although we had sex a LOT. Mostly, in order for him to cum he had to do so 'on' me rather than 'in' me. I never let on that this was disappointing for me....heaven forbid I speak to him about it--he would think it a criticism...never critisize a Narc--but for myself, I would have (and still do) preferred a man to ejaculate inside of me, I guess because it completes the act for me, and as I can orgasm about the time he does, it's soooo much better if he does so inside of me.

Just sayin'