T emailed me back that I can let her know early tomorrow, and she hopes I get some rest today.
So I still don't know if she cares that I have a cold. I have a hard time making decisions and ruminate too much about them. I keep coughing even with tea and cough drops which makes my head hurt. Yucky cold! Eyes hurting not itching so this is definitely no allergies.

What really bothers me is that t was NOT on my mind and now she is! Her emails trigger me which is why I'm okay with the rule that she never answers except for scheduling.