First, I do agree with everyones suggestions and also would like to mention, that thru your post, you DO sound a bit on the needy side, and perhaps that shows. Nothing like the smell of desperation to spoil a possible friendship. Trying2survive hit the nail on the head, also. See, you would call me a 'terrible friend' because I rarely if ever go out with friends when they invite, and in fact I avoid any possiblility by constantly being 'too busy'. It's a lie. I'm just scared. I hate going out places.....if I eventually feel I need people, I may invite them over to my apt...but just before they arrive I wish I hadn't. I'm often relieved if they call and cancel, although I'm careful not to show it. On the outside, I'm a great 'friend'. But inside, I just want to be alone.

Yes, most dating sites are crap, but you picked the worst of the bunch...Cupid is known online as being a disaster in the making as most people on it are frauds and are only on it to catfish people. eHarmony is a better site, if you really want to use one....I've made several 'friends' on there--thankfully, they are all out of state so I don't actually have to entertain them. I haven't found 'the one' and I'm not looking....strangely enough, that's how I keep finding relationships...by not looking for them.

Oh, and yes I gather you would be upset if that 'situation' kept happeing to you and also understand that you might give off vibes that you're irritated. But you have to remember, although this 'keeps happening to' you....THEY don't know that. For them it's the first time.

It's a little like if I got angry at a donor because they came in late---fact is, I see dozens of donors all day long....but they only see one of me. I have to treat them as if they're the first person I've seen all day. No matter how aggrivated a previous donor might have made me.

Take care