We already talked about the weekend/late night boundaries. I told her I would not send a text at that time. T said she absolutely DOES want me to send a text, as long as I understand that I might not get an immediate response. If I feel that not getting an immediate response might be an issue, then I should hold off texting until the next morning. I'm okay with the delay, I understand and accept that she can't always respond right away. It's more my issues around feeling like I'm intruding. T insists I'm not intruding and this isn't something I should wait on.

Yeah - testing would seem like crying wolf and that's why I won't do it, but I really, really want to anyway!!!!!