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Originally Posted by trying2survive
at the point where there is no response...leave it go.
if people really want to see you, they'll call/text/e mail
until then you have to keep living your life, can't let it revolve around one person. contact other people
this is why they are telling you you are so needy, i am only needy with my gf/so not with friends EVER..
that is a big NO NO
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So if they call are they being needy? Not that that would matter to me, but you're making fostering friendships sound like a Mexican standoff. I know people play stupid social games with each other, but they are just that: stupid!
Contact other people? If there are other people to contact, this wouldn't be a problem in the first place. On the rare occasion that I have a few people I can contact at the same time. I'm just faced with the same predicament with each person. I can spread my contact out between them, but then things are left to go cold.