I like that "special snowflake". I think the therapeutic relationship is the only place I get to feel like a special snowflake and I betcha we make the T's sometimes feel that way too ya know? the whole anger thing though - that's so hard to talk through - I had a conversation like that with my T back in October I think it was, I had some anger towards her because I had apologized for something I had done and I did not hear her accept my apology - so I thought she had not. I held onto that anger for too long and didn't tell her about it. I won't do that again....