We had a fight. Which after a nasty fight I tend to turn my phone off so if he calls I wont say anything hurtful until i cool off. I finally turned it back on and found a voicemail from him saying nastily that he was calling to apologize but since i turned my phone off he wont apologize. He just said to file papers and we are done. I never even had the chance to approach the subject above to him. I am now crying inside and out. It is what i knew was impending, but why does it still hurt. I dont know if he was serious or if he was just saying it in the heat of anger. But i could use some words of help right now....