amelia, after i read your thread i happened onto another site where someone was talking about teaching a class on writing one's life story/memoir. i know you are a writer so maybe doing some sort of writing project like rainbow suggested--of course only if you have the energy--is something to consider? it could be as simple as compiling the daily stories you are telling or writing a life story or something else. i don't know, just a thought as so many of us are enjoying reading your stories, the questions your T poses and your thoughts. if you are interested i can post or PM you the articles & links i found on doing this.