"Cute tops look slutty" - YES! Or totally totally wrong. I find I have to be very careful with halternecks for example. If the cut is not correct they'll be very far from flattering.

I tend to stick with a lot of black on the top, and straight across strapless / tube tops or off shoulder or one shoulder for going out - anything simple really, complicated or high necklines are out.

I hate shopping for work clothes, finding shirts that fit round the bust without giving the popping out impression and yet still taper in at the waist is a NIGHTMARE.

screw all those people who make clothes for sticks or pears or apples ...