Nope, I'm much worse with it. Yes, I have an understanding of pain and I can empathize with others. Yes, I am less judgmental. But on the other hand, I see what you mean about focusing on our own problems. I spend all day pouring over every little thing I've ever done and it's exhausting. However, I wouldn't call it narcissistic. It's hard NOT to be this way when things are so bad. Also, narcissists have very specific behavioral patterns that are pretty easy to detect.