Thanks for what you all have said in old post called Going Dancing With T.

I am still battling these issues with T. She and I texted most of the day yesterday and for a couple of hours today. Here's the latest: so I asked her if she went to church on Wednesday and Sunday nights. I have been looking for another church to go to and meant ironed this to T. She told me I should come visit next Sunday and that she expects to see me there. But then I told her I didn't want to go alone, to a huge church because that would make me nervous. She said she would sit with me but she has to do something else for the church that morning. Then I said I wouldn't be social I'd just visit once and leave. She said I would get connected faster than I believe and that she could get me info to the teens age group at the church. I told her I'd rather be a hermit. She said I'm with you there but you need to have fun, and she is helping me not get bored. Then I told her I wouldn't have her hand and her to drag me, like she did at dance. (Not literal hand holding) I asked her how this helps me if she's always there. She told me I didn't need her to hold me hand and that I was brave at the dance and that I don't give myself enough credit. I asked her but what if I always want you there with me? Is that transference? She said its co-dependence. The next day I text her asking her why she invited me to the concert a few months from now. She said it was because I told her I knew of some going, and T said I should go. And then she said that I didn't know if I'd get to go with them (I'm pretty sure I never said that). So she said yea I have room in my car for one more (Call it a coincidence). She said the more the merrier and that she and her friend were planning on asking anyone who'd be interested. She asked me why I asked about the concert. I told her because it was weird that we were starting to do things outside of office and that I am confused by it. She said I don't want to confuse you, just giving you ideas of things to do socially. She says I see you enjoying way more things once you try them. I'm an encourager but not a hand holder. Then, she sends me an email that was the conversation she had with the director over the teen group with the church. I read the response and then scrolled down to read what T wrote to director. T wrote that I was a social dropout due to college for two yrs and that I was shy and needed a group of people my age to be with and to accept me!! I promptly told T why she said those things about me to a stranger? She asked me was it has she said those things? She said I was shy in new situations. That that is not bad and asked if it upset me. I told her why she had to sound like a therapist? And that the last thing that was said tonight.

Sorry so long, any thoughts as to what in the world is going on here?