I'm growing even more concerned with this post than the one before. The constant texting and all the invitations to social events are too much for a healthy therapeutic relationship. It sounds a little like she's insisting, too. Like she's encouraging you to be dependent on her. I mean, do you REALLY need HER to give you ideas of what to do socially? Wouldn't it help more if she helped you to think about what you might want to do socially, rather than inviting you to things she enjoys? I'm worried about what this relationship is turning into and how it's going to affect you. I'm also very concerned that she is not keeping your confidentiality (taking you in the car with a friend, talking to the priest about your going to a group, etc). You were very right: she isn't talking / acting as a therapist. I hope you can work something out. How long have you been with this T?