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Originally Posted by GenCat
She said I don't want to confuse you, just giving you ideas of things to do socially...I'm an encourager but not a hand holder.
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your T is not just encouraging you to do things nor merely giving you ideas of things to do. she is inviting you and accompanying you to events. those aren't the same thing. i don't see how your T is empowering you to do things on your own but rather creating a dependency
on her by taking you to events. how does this help you to be more assertive or empower you? this is a dual relationship as she is now socializing with you. unfortunately, dual relationships with the T don't usually end well. i unknowingly had a dual relationship with my last T and it screwed up the therapy which resulted in my deciding to leave therapy with her.
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Then, she sends me an email that was the conversation she had with the director over the teen group with the church. I read the response and then scrolled down to read what T wrote to director. T wrote that I was a social dropout due to college for two yrs and that I was shy and needed a group of people my age to be with and to accept me!!
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what she did here is a violation of your confidentiality with her. i think your T has jumped the shark. i understand you have feelings for her but she doesn't seem to be acting in your best interests at this point. i'm sorry. i know you are confused and must be upset about all this.
