Welcome to the toxic stepmom club.
Cinderella had one, too.
Some aren't toxic...thankfully.
Just you've got one, I've got one, others have one...
It sounds like she's got control issues. Don't introduce her to your women, so she can't access them after a break up.
Probably wants to be center of attention.
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