Well, I don't know allot about this, Grey Matter. I'm too old & isolated for it to have much meaning for me. The one thing I would offer is that, from my perspective at least, we MtF transsexual persons (which is what I'm familiar with) are not non-binary for the most part. In fact we are, in a sense, ultra binary. We are dumped onto one end of the binary at birth. And we are desperate to leap as far as possible toward the other end of the binary. As such, we need for there to be binary associations: pink & other pastel colors & floral prints= feminine, dresses= feminine, make-up= feminine. These are the mileage markers by which we judge our progress toward our goal. So, in a sense, what I understand the non-binary objective to be runs counter to the goals of most trans individuals. I've not known any MtF trans person who didn't love pink... I do!