guys...(or gals, i don't want ot sound like an idiot here)

first of all, let me say this..there are a lot of a**holes in this world, seriously
there are. the big cities of this earth are full of them. if you run across them
(which invariably you will, they land on me a lot) you have to let it roll off your back.

secondly i will tell you a little secret about people that most don't know.
most people are superficial and shallow and first impressions are everything.
whenever i go out in public i make certain i look my very best, i ALWAYS, ALWAYS dress nice, the nicer you can afford the better FIRST IMPRESSIONS REALLY ARE EVERYTHING. last night i went out to a bar and had people buying me shots, one guy thought i was a lawyer or something, i get that question all the time, i go to places like wal mart and whatnot and people open doors for me, do they have to..of course not..but they do, i love it & it does wonders for my self esteem (hee hee, or ego if you wil! LOL!)

why do you think pretty girls get so much attention?? most pretty girls i know are a**holes ( not all, most) but most often they don't have too much trouble getting a date.It doesn't hurt that i am quite handsome ( all of my ex girlfriends say i stay in the mirror too much also, hee hee) but you do have to make yourself as attractive as possible whether you have natural beauty or not. i don't know how either of you guys dress but appearance is very important as to why whether people want to be around you, hang out with you or be your friend( yes i know it's stupid really..it shouldn't matter but it does, quite a bit actually) nobody want to be the one to befriend "a slob" or a "bum" this is how people think. sure they will be nice in a group setting, but one on one forget it, they may even exchange numbers to "be nice" are they really going to take the time to get to know you or hang out with you...probably not

third, assuming the above is not an issue, i would say there could be something you guys are doing that is putting people off, i.e being obnoxious,
that is one thing people really get put off by, people that are blunt,rude
these things put people off. me personally i am a social butterfly and i get on quite well with people so i'm throwing out some tips because something is wrong here..this shouldn't happen with EVERY single person you know, in reality it isn't that difficult to make friends, i have hard time when they come over to get them to go home!

fourth people that come around and always ask for things( money,help,assistance) people will avoid you because of this, it is also important to be self sufficient, be able to buy your own food ,drinks etc.
i don't personally know each of you guys situations but something is amiss here.

i do hope this helps and good luck guys, keep trying! don't give up..making friends is like second nature to me, a lot of time i don't even think about it.
when i need some companionship i call em up, but i would prefer to be around gf personally though