There's been a lot of good information and support given here... but I suspect that nothing anyone says will have much affect on you. Frankly, you're too stuck on the way you've been thinking for so long that finding a way out of your "horrible trap" isn't something you're capable of doing right now. No matter what anyone says, you seem to always have a reason to continue thinking and acting the same way you've thought and acted in the past.

As it has been pointed out, something is amiss here. If ALL of your attempts to make friends result in your being rejected, then perhaps it's about time you took a good hard look at the way you THINK and stop blaming your inability to make a connection on everyone else!

You create your own reality by the way you think and perceive the world around you.

You become the person you think you are... That is, you see yourself as a loser that no one likes or wants to be friends with... You can tell me that that isn't what you think until the cows come home, but it's exactly what you think of yourself... It's what you've been telling everyone in every post you've made here. C'mon dude! Read between the lines!

You need to take a look at your own self-perception. What are your expectations when it comes to making friends? Are they reasonable? Are you judging other people that don't want to be friends with you? WHY?? Are you blaming other people for not wanting to be your friend? WHY?

What are you thinking? HOW are you thinking?

You need to change your perspective!

I hope you learn to understand yourself better...

Anyway, I'm not saying this to be the bad guy or hurt your feelings, I'm just giving you my take an what I see happening with you. If you think I'm full of BS, cool... ignore what I just said... sort of like you've been doing with everyone else.


Dan