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Originally Posted by IndestructibleGirl
I don't know if I'm avoiding looking at any pain there or if I'm just actually being a normal human being and reacting to loss by feeling sad by not wallowing in it.
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I didn't know you were leaving her.
Is this your final decision?
It seems like you might be avoiding dealing with the feelings now. After all, she has been a major part of your life. The way I look at it-you'll either have to face it now or later. Maybe in your case, later?
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I'm veering towards thinking it's healthy because I feel strong and optimistic and just so much better!
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It's not necessarily a bad thing. I'm not sure if this is sustainable, but maybe it's worth a try? Nothing wrong with being where you're at. It just is.