I totally agree with Kids... you have had this same strugle for a while and it just does not feel like that T has ever made an effort to encourage your personal communication style. You do have something to say... but you have other ways to talk. She has been collecting rent for the time you spend in her office. Some people need that type of therapy... just a wall with ears and a pulse... and that does the trick. That is fine. But others need the actions of the therapist as well.