You need to get out of that relationship. I read that and only saw red flag after red flag. Whether you had been a saint or not, he has no right to harm you in any form at all.

If you can get out safely, I really hope you do. If you need resources, I know loads. Even apps that are disguised as news apps to get you in contact with someone. Please, please try and stay safe. This is an abusive relationship and you deserve so much better.