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Originally Posted by waiting4
I would agree with one caveat.....I am attractive (so I've been told, although not at ALL conceited as I was the total ugly duckling as a kid, and thru highschool so ego had not a chance! lol) but in that respect, a lot of men, most in fact think I have no problem finding dates, that I'm terribly popular and they have no chance.
What they don't know, is that I can be shy....that most men who DO hit on me are losers by their own description but figure they've nothing to lose, or 'stock handsome' with similarly shallow aspect....the regular, kind man, good man....(and trust me, I prefer men who are NOT the George Clooney type)...they think they don't have a chance, and don't try...and lots of times... most times, I'm too shy to just...........
Just because the woman is attractive, men...........don't think she isn't lonely and looking. Never make assumptions. That goes for women too.
Just sayin.
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i couldn't agree with you more, i do make that mistake as well and assume
sometimes an attractive woman is taken and there have been times i'm guilty of not trying also, sometimes i guess i can be lazy and don't feel like putting up the effort...with other guys i guess i could be that sometimes guys get intimidated by an attractive woman at times, so yes i do think a lot of times us guys do make assumptions other times i think guys are afraid of rejection, my best friend he is horrible with this..we will hang out sometimes, he sees an attractive woman tells me he is interested and does nothing
i tell him, go say something to her, the worst she can do is say she is not interested..it's not like she is going to slap him in the face for trying to hit on her,wtf??
but a lot of times if a guy doesn't have a lot of self confidence, they are not going to take a chance on getting rejected, the losers like you say already know what's coming hee hee! they already know they have nothing to lose ha ha ha
p.s. i still think you have no problem finding a date! hee hee
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