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Apr 29, 2014, 10:18 PM
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Member Since: Apr 2014
Location: Jackson TN
Posts: 3
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So, my fiancé has a problem. He has this need to talk to and sext other people. I knew he did it before we got together when he was married to his ex-wife but he was never happy with her. She was cold hearted and didn't care about anyone but herself. A few months ago I caught him texting another girl. He had been doing it for 2 weeks behind my back. He deleted the messages before I could read them but swore it was innocent. The other night, I logged into his email account and saw where he posted on Craigslist asking if there were any ladies that wanted to talk and send pictures on kik messenger. I told him when we got together that I did not want him on kik messenger anymore. I have caught him with the app on his phone twice before this. I honestly don't think he would ever act on anything, but the fact that he has the need to talk to and send pics back and forth with other girls really bothers me. It makes me feel like I can't make him happy. He is my soul mate. I realized when we fell in love that I had never really been in love with anyone ever before. I have given up EVERYTHING for him. I really don't want to just give up on him. I just don't know what else to do. I just feel worthless now. Like I can't make him happy. I just don't understand why he has to talk to other people. What should I do? We are supposed to get married next month. He says he wants to get help. That he doesn't want to lose me. He has talked to him mom about all of this and is going to start going to Pathways for counseling. He also let me put restrictions on his phone to where he can't get on the internet or delete apps that he has downloaded without a passcode that only I know. 
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