I'll be the first to say, that any abuse, physical or other is not right and the least you should do is get out of the relationship on that alone.

3somes have got to be the biggest fantasy amongst humans, and likely the biggest conflict amongst couples. I believe that a lot of people was to have the but the emotional complexity involved makes it difficult to ensure that all involved are satisfied.

I personally have had two 3somes with my wife early in our marriage. They were MFM 3somes. My wife asked, more begged, to have sex with me and really good friends. She ended up being satisfied. The fact that I'm bisexual meand that I have no problems being with men. Unfortunately for me, I didn't get anything out of the the 3some. No oral or **** sex on the guys. But my wife got it all.

Now almost two decades into our marriage, I'm more into men than women and I want a 3some with a guy so my wife and I can share him. Unfortunately my wife doesn't want to do it. Even after all these years, I still can't get what I want, it is never equal. 3somes are only found in myths, erotica and porn.