Exactly! I feel like I've missed out on being comfortable in my own skin because I am always attacked by someone for seemingly everything I do to my appearance. I recently went without a haircut for a few months, I have curly hair that likes getting big, and I wore a pink/red sweatshirt and people were just "Oh, so you're a girl now!" oh my good god. It's so infuriating.

And then you get cis people who then tell me "well, then, dress like a boy"

*head desk*