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Originally Posted by Grey Matter
Exactly! I feel like I've missed out on being comfortable in my own skin because I am always attacked by someone for seemingly everything I do to my appearance. I recently went without a haircut for a few months, I have curly hair that likes getting big, and I wore a pink/red sweatshirt and people were just "Oh, so you're a girl now!" oh my good god. It's so infuriating.
And then you get cis people who then tell me "well, then, dress like a boy"
*head desk*
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Seriously?! Like, non-binary is literally being outside binary gender! Wearing feminine stuff is just part of being non-binary! It's just as gender neutral as pants and short hair!
Femininity =\= girl
Masculinity =\= boy OR neutral
Everything is neutral. Literally everything. It's your gender expression, not theirs!
I usually dress more masculine, but that's just me, my ratio of masculinity to femininity to neutral tends to be like 50:20:30.