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Old Apr 30, 2014, 08:42 AM
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Yes, anyone that wants to break any close relationship with a written paragraph is not worth your time. He knew you would be angry and he was too much of a coward to be a man about it.

Even if you know you are better off...I understand you are angry and hurt!!!

I went through something similar - he did not do it in writing...but it hurt like crazy and I did not hold back my anger...we tried to be friends (for what I thought were great reasons)...but the pain lasted a lot longer. I did apologize for my behavior later on but I also told him it came from a place of "losing someone" I loved a lot! That was almost 2 yrs ago. Trying to hold on to a friendship did not work for me. Now, 2 yrs later...I still miss him and will always love him and thankful I did have him in my life -but I am not pining over him anymore.

Good luck!!!! Be good to yourself!!!!
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Last edited by brainhi; Apr 30, 2014 at 11:15 AM.
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