Thanks for this thread, its something I am struggling with at the moment.

I really think my T is ill, but I don't know if I should ask her or not. Part of me is scared of the answer.

She went into hospital a few months ago to have a lump removed from her abdominal area. And then today in our phone conversation she said that she has been feeling tired lately so has decided not to work in the evenings anymore.

I'm scared for her, and selfishly I am also scared for me