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Old Apr 30, 2014, 11:05 AM
Bill3 Bill3 is offline
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I’ve never, ever talked to T about any kind of transference, and I just can't even though I know it's helped a lot of other people. I don’t even know if it’s transference, because T is really open and sharing and I feel like I like him for him. I simply enjoy being in his presence, and love the care and attention he gives me. It seems like the actual things I’m trying to work on are taking a back-seat to absorbing as much warmth as I can while I’m there. It feels like a drug

You see progress on anxiety and depression but worry about your dependence on T.

I think it would be helpful, and possibly enlightening, to hear T's perspective on your feelings. I know it will be hard, but before you decide to leave, I urge you talk to him about what you wrote here.
Thanks for this!
Aloneandafraid, unaluna