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Originally Posted by pegasus
Well, I can tell you that the attachment is essential in my opinion because eventually you'll have your own internal therapist. I know it's hard and feels wrong but what will happen is you will be able to love and support yourself. You won't be devasted when therapy ends, you will feel you are ready. Hugs  |
Is this true for everybody though? Did you experience it personally? I'm not asking in an argumentative way, I'm just curious.
I know there are people on this site who have been in therapy for YEARS and are still struggling with their feelings for their T's. I really don't want to be here in three or five or ten years still obsessing over T and waiting for my next appointment. I'd rather be alone with my face stuffed in a book
I don't say this to judge but to emphasize how much I can't stand the way I've been feeling lately. I need to change something if there is no foreseeable end to the madness in sight.
Thanks