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Originally Posted by Fuzzybear
If a love relationship or "friendship" goes badly wrong, and you're blamed wrongly and hurt deeply.... How do you feel?
Do you shrug your shoulders and walk away and let all the poor treatment roll off your back?
Or do you still love this person who has treated you so shabbily? or do you hate them? or are you indifferent to them?
Do you try to make things right, taking all the blame and (even if this is unfair) and...
Can you still forgive them even if it's impossible to remove them completely from your life?
Are you extremely sensitive to your environment, feeling violated by things that 'normal" people may be able to ignore and dismiss more easily?
(not about anyone in particular, on pc or anywhere)
do you think the opposite of love is "hate" or "indifference"?
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i never let the poor treatment roll of my back, i usually beg them to come back and sign up for more abuse ( silly me!).
i don't know if i forgive them but i am guilty of accepting alll the blame even when clearly is wasn't my fault
im very sensitive my BPD is quite severe so it's never easy
i can go from love to hate to love again in a split second
wish i could control it better!!
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