Hi,

Nerves are normal. I've been married twice, 22yrs, 14yrs, and had a long term relationship of 8yrs; as well as a few short relationships, and I can tell you I was nervous every time. One thing I learned is that looks had absolutely nothing to do with how each relationship worked out. The real good looking guys treated me badly and had no real personality because they let looks carry them.

The guys who were lacking in looks but spent more time on improving their personalities, were a joy to be with and live with. A woman's body size is only a problem for those guys with no personality or life experience. Those people are not worth your time - seriously.

So go on your date and enjoy your time. If it does not work out, don't worry. Laugh it over with your female friends and put it down to experience. Good Luck x