P.S. You may want to clarify what you mean by madness? If you were to lose your job and you attribute that purely to obsession with the therapist well that's an entirely different and problematic level of mental illness. If you can't pay the bills, pay attention at all to your family, or are hurting yourself because of all the emotional upset, then I would be more concerned. If by "madness" you mean feeling upset and preoccupied then, I'd feel very comfortable saying that can be worked through.

Also, you know, there are skills to deal with emotional overhwelm. I've found they help a lot when the intensity level is much too high for comfort. Your T can probably help you with that, or there are online resources or books too.