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Glad you are here talking it out. I think you know what you need to do...but your getting it out of your head and looking for validation...YOU GOT IT!!!!
Just reading some of what he is doing to you makes me sick to my stomach...and you have some how learned to tolerate his behavior in the past. You are still a good person and I'm sure you will always be one. Make your plan.
His "actions" not words are proof of who he is. If he were to win you back...it's all about what he does not what he says.
Take good care of yourself and figure our how not to beat yourself up!!!!
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“A person is also mentally weak by the quantity of time he spends to sneak peek into others lives to devalue and degrade the quality of his own life.” Anuj Somany
“Psychotherapy works by going deep into the brain and its neurons and changing their structure by turning on the right genes. The talking cure works by "talking to neurons," and that an effective psychotherapist or psychoanalyst is a "microsurgeon of the mind" who helps patients make needed alterations in neuronal networks.” Norman Doidge
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