this is a problem that needs to be fixed BEFORE you get married, seeing how you have never been in love before, i think it is a really bad idea to get married just yet..how long have you known this man? do you guys live together? you can never get to know a person really until you live with them.

IMHO you need to live with a person a MINIMUM of 3 to 3/2 years..give time for the real "them" to show up and see what you are signing up for, too many marriages fail because people sign up for what they thought they were getting only to later realize it was a bait and switch


you want to give your marriage a fighting chance, relationships alone are hard enough, i imagine marriage is much harder...you don't want to set yourself up for failure, hope this helps and good luck!