This is clearly another huge red flat/loosening of boundaries; but you know this.
What is it that you would like to hear from folks in this forum? (I mean it respectfully. People seem tho echo that her behavior is not appropriate and you seem to know this too...)
I know this hurts but: your therapeutic relationship at this point can go two ways: 1. She will continue with the boundary crossings/violations until it makes you incredibly uncomfortable/she abuses her power, OR 2. She will realize that she has been inappropriate and begin setting much stricter boundaries; this will lead you to feel unfairly rejected/like you did something wrong.
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Originally Posted by GenCat
Newest issue that happened today: Woke up sick, told T I might not make it to session in few days if im still sick. She told me pray that I heal soon for many different reasons. (have no idea what that means) Also the whole month of April I have not paid at all, because I am a college student who struggles to pay $50 each week to see T, so I told her I couldn't come the whole month of April, she said of course you have to come and ill give you a discount for April. So today she told me my insurance came through and that I didn't have to pay anything for April and that I only needed to pay $25 each time I see her. Kinda feel strange I didn't pay her for a month and she agreed to see me without getting paid.
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