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Originally Posted by Rapunzel
Living in a small community changes everything. Any two people in a small community are going to be at some of the same events, and even more so if they have some of the same interests. It is still important to maintain good boundaries and keep it professional, but as members of the same community, interaction outside of the office is inevitable and people deal with that as well as they can. It would be more awkward to try to avoid each other.
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Right, one thing to unintentionally bump into each other, but another to plan attending social events together, ride share, etc..
The T also apparently shared confidential information with a third party, visited where you work, etc. etc.
http://forums.psychcentral.com/psych...dancing-t.html
http://forums.psychcentral.com/psych...-part-2-a.html
Then there's the issue of your discomfort and confusion about her intentions, things like this:
"Another thing I've been thinking about is that when we were at the dance, we sat beside each other and a few times we talked I saw her look down at my breasts (had low cut dress on, so cleavage showed) and she touched my knee one time and asked if i was having fun and another time leaned over, when i had her phone and rested her hand on the back of my seat where my butt sat." and you wondering after if she was "trying to get" you "into bed."
How can socializing with her help that?