I don't think you are inappropriate. And I think that her comments about your sexuality were inappropriate. I don't really see why the onus is on the client to behave "appropriately" in therapy. It seems like the place where you just come to behave as you behave, and the therapist is supposed to help you work that out. If how you behave is not good for the therapist then obviously there should be a referral (or if you were violent, then I guess there would have to be consequences). But I just have a hard time with this idea of the client being appropriate in therapy. It seems very strange to me.

Overall it just really seems like your last t didn't understand you.