That is the other issue I had - she never gave me any referrels and said I could not contact her... when I was in quite a severe depression, she still said I couldn't e-mail, text or anything
It made me quite self-conscious in therapy - as she was commenting on my looks, and obviously after all this - my "appropriateness". I needed someone that I could just be myself with, that I could let my guard down - cry, yell, scream and laugh. I remember her talking to me about a fashion boutique in town - and I said I didn't know about it. She said, "I thought you were into fashion?" She assumed I knew lots of things about our therapy too, due to the fact I am studying to be a clinician. I did - but I was happy to learn from her! She would say often that I did not need her... but I did