I don't know ... I think the idea of a traditional white wedding is lovely, but then it isn't my thing at all so I suppose I don't place so much importance on it.

Personally things like paying off mortgage or world travel are more important to me. I have seen so many stressed brides that you wonder if it's all worth it - I suppose you get good photos ... heh.

Some friends of mine had a small wedding, a small formal dinner, then threw a massive party with all their DJ friends spinning and all their friends in attendance, free venue and a bartab. Certainly not an expensive wedding but an absolute fantastic way to do things.