Thanks to all responses!

I MUST limit my time with her...she is too negative, and yes too toxic!

Get this....

Christmas I took her several gifts, all wrapped up nicely....she said point blank, "How much did they cost a dollar each?".......WHAT????? And there are nice gifts...she was even reluctant to open them....and BTW...to my knowledge, she has used none of them. She NEVER has smiled...unless it was an evil, wicked one....her ENTIRE family abandoned her due to her attitude....and I could literally write two books on the things she has done behind my back, to me, against me, and about me........