I'm really sorry this happened to you. To be frank, your past therapist sounds like an insensitive, incompetent b**ch. You didn't deserve any of those words, especially coming from a 'professional'. :eyeroll: From what you've said, as other have reiterated, you weren't 'inappropriate'. I'm heterosexual and haven't gone through the exact same thing. However it's extremely ignorant to put down the next person for what they can't help. In an earlier comment someone related to you and mentioned that was a word someone used on them: 'chose.' Ugggghhh...don't get me started!

Especially after reading your last post, it seems to me your suspicions about her having issues of her own are completely accurate. SHE was uncomfortable with YOUR sexuality and your feelings for her so she kept focusing on it. Basically, she made it an issue and tried to turn it on you saying it was yours, even though you made it clear it was not. As for the constant compliments, it's always possible she was envious of your looks. I understand too, as I've experienced being overly scrutinized in therapy. Regardless a true professional would not do these things and you didn't deserve any of it.

I know this will be hard for you to take in; though think of it this way: she did you a favor. You're no longer dealing with her and her s**tty ignorance. I hope your next therapist listens to and 'appropriately' addresses your needs.