For me, I say attachment because I hate the word transference. That word, although I have used it before, trivializes the relationship I think.

I really believe that I like my therapist and I wonder why does it have to be transference??? I don't like labels. I got very upset when he labeled my feelings this way. It feels like being cast aside even if he doesn't mean to.

I'm always wondering how he feels and looking for any sign that he feels the same way. I shouldn't be doing that but I am. Ugh...I hope that answers your question Sunrise