I recently asked my husband to move out of our home that we shared with our two boys. We have been married for almost 3 years. I discovered shortly after we were married that he had a severe sex and pornography addiction along with severe depression. We've tried support groups and such but he is continuing to lie and not commit to the process. The kids have found the pornography, he has left them unattended to take care of his needs and then he began to use them as pawns to get his way. A contract was developed and the result of violating that contract was being asked to leave the home. That happened and now he is pushing for a time frame to return home. It's hard because I also discovered that he has never been completely honest in his recovery and so each time that I thought we were making headway and moving forward it turns out he was just medicating a different way. I'm looking for a therapist to meet with but in the mean time I'm struggling because he is pushing for things that I can't see committing to at this time. I can use all the support and wisdom I can get... Any nuggets of gold out there for me?